My dear friends never have any pre notions , pre conceived ideas and thoughts , any misgivings, any apprehensions, any type of pre reservations even before you start anything i.e. personal or professional work and assignments in the business, in the job, any of your projects or whichever professional field you are in. These are all weeds of pre notions and imaginary fears, so Rip The Weeds of all these types from your mind, and do your personal and professional work totally Fearlessly.
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So my dear friends Rip The Weeds of any and every kind out of your mind and do your work religiously. And you will be a winner and definitely number one in your personal and professional area.
My dear friends if you want to achieve something big, sizable, substantial and colossal than First Set Smaller Goals. If you want to achieve planet Mars , plan and make Mission Moon first, only than you will reach somewhere near the Mars. If you want to scale and win over the Mount Everest than first scale and win over smaller mountain peaks, only than you will be able to scale the Mount Everest. If you want to organise a trip covering full circle of this world and trotter over the total globe than first make a visit to different approachable and nearby countries which will be a part of your itinerary so as to organise your globe trotting fully.
If you want to be highly specialised doctor of any of the branch of medicine or surgery, the first and foremost step is to seek admission and pass out and acquire a degree of M.B.B.S from a recognise university, only than one day you will become super specialist by acquiring more and more degrees of medicine and surgery. If you want to be a highly specialised engineer in any of the stream of the engineering be it be civil, mechanical, electrical, computer and IT, and many more ,the first and foremost step is to seek admission, pass out and acquire a degree of B.Tech or B.E. from a recognise university, only than one day you will become a highly specialised engineer by acquiring more and more degrees in only that stream of engineering in which your dreams are fulfilled in the future. If you want to be a highly successful restaurateur with chain of restaurants than you have to first start with a single restaurant with unique and delicious and mouth watering dishes which will give your restaurant a name to reckon with, and only than one day you will have popular chains of your own restaurants. If you want to be a highly specialised architect than first and foremost step is to seek admission ,pass out and acquire a degree of B.Arch. from a recognise university, only than one day you will become a highly specialised architect by acquiring more and more degrees in the field of architectural engineering, in which your dreams are fulfilled in the future. If you want to be a legal luminary than first and foremost step is to seek admission ,pass out and acquire a degree of LLB from a recognise university, only than one day you will become a highly specialised lawyer to reckon with, by acquiring more and more degrees in the legal field , in which your dreams are fulfilled in the future. If you want to be a super specialist cook or a name to reckon with, in hospitality and hotel industry than first and foremost step is to seek admission ,pass out and acquire a degree of B.Sc. in Hotel Administration and hospitality from a recognise university, only than one day you will become a highly specialised cook or a hotel manager to reckon with, by acquiring more and more degrees in the hotel administration and hospitality field , in which your dreams are fulfilled in the future.
So my dear friends always First Set Smaller Goals to achieve something super, massive and gigantic.
My dear friends me, you for that matter all of us were totally and wholly Empty Inside when our great parents brought us in this world. We may be born at, be it be a govt hospital, be it be a private nursing home or be it be in your home & that too by nannies available at that time. We all cried and yelled at the place where we are born because our stomach was empty inside. It was our dearest mother who fed us with her milk and taught us the very first lesson how to suck her milk and we all learned very quickly because our brain was Empty Inside and we all immediately put in this first lesson of our mother in our brain. And after that we all yelled whenever our stomach was Empty Inside for feeding .
This clearly means that we all are Empty Inside since the day we all are born. Our personality and various traits are because of what we put inside in this body and brain by learning and by practicing. Our style of talking is because of what we put inside in this body and brain by learning and by practicing. Our style of walking is because of what we put inside in this body and brain by learning and by practicing. Our style of presentation may it be personal or professional is because of what we put inside in this body and brain by learning and by practicing. Our style and sense of dressing is because of what we put inside in this body and brain by learning and by practicing. Our style of facing and putting forth our point of view before our relatives, friends, family members at personal level and before our clients, customers, end users of our products, before our team members, before our hierarchy, in the job, in the business, in our projects we are dealing with or whichever professional field we are in, is because of what we put inside in this body and brain by learning and by practicing. Our sense of humor is because of what we put inside in this body and brain by learning and by practicing. Our courageousness is because of what we put inside in this body and brain by learning and by practicing. Our integrity is because of what we put inside in this body and brain by learning and by practicing. Our common sense is because of what we put inside in this body and brain by learning and by practicing. Our intelligence is because of what we put inside in this body and brain by learning and by practicing. Our education is because of what we put inside in this body and brain by learning and by practicing. Our self confidence is because of what we put inside in this body and brain by learning and by practicing. Our Self awareness is because of what we put inside in this body and brain by learning and by practicing. Our discipline is because of what we put inside in this body and brain by learning and by practicing. Our kindness is because of what we put inside in this body and brain by learning and by practicing. Our generosity is because of what we put inside in this body and brain by learning and by practicing. Our being emotionally open because of what we put inside in this body and brain by learning and by practicing. our wittiness is because of what we put inside in this body and brain by learning and by practicing. So my dear friends we all were Empty Inside when we came in this world and what we are today is because of what we put inside in this body and brain by learning and by practicing which is a never ending process.
My Dear Friends sometimes it can happen in both personal and professional area and assignments, that despite your working hard, putting best of your efforts, slogging day in and day out even than you do not achieve and accomplish goals and targets set by you, Do not Cry, Accept it, Fight it and Win it.
Here fight does not mean physical fight or any type of altercations. Rather fight here denotes the initiative and drive to resolve any problems, difficulties, obstacles and issues faced in various personal areas and professional assignments i.e.in your job, in your business, in your projects or whichever professional field you are in, on day to day basis.
Here cry also does not mean in literal sense weeping or shedding tears. Rather cry here denotes wasting time in procrastination, dilly-dalling, delaying, avoiding ,postponing, putting of the various questions and doubts raised in various personal areas and professional assignments i.e. in your job, in your business, in your projects or whichever professional field you are in, on day to day basis.
Sometimes it can happen in both personal and professional area and assignments, that despite implementing best of strategies and plans you do not achieve and accomplish goals and targets set by you, Do not Cry, Accept it, Fight it and Win it. Sometimes it can happen in both personal and professional area and assignments, that despite you motivating and pursing every body around you to put in their best, keeping everybody around you happy and in high spirits, even than you do not achieve and accomplish goals and targets set by you, Do not Cry, Accept it, Fight it and Win it. Sometimes it can happen in both personal and professional area and assignments, that despite you meet and fulfill each and every genuine and ethical demand raised , even than you do not achieve and accomplish goals and targets set by you, Do not Cry, Accept it, Fight it and Win it. Sometimes it can happen in both personal and professional area and assignments, that despite you find out and arrange best business and professional meets and even the personal functions in best of the place available in & around your area of working, even than your personal and business circle is not happy and you do not achieve and accomplish goals and targets set by you, Do not Cry, Accept it, Fight it and Win it. Sometimes it can happen in both personal and professional area and assignments, that despite you present personally best of you in your personal relations before others; professionally you present the best live demonstration of your products before your clients, customers and end users of your products but even than they are not convinced, satisfied by your live presentation about your products and you do not achieve and accomplish goals and targets set by you, Do not Cry, Accept it, Fight it and Win it. Sometimes it can happen in professional area and assignments, that despite you explain to your clients, customers and end users of the products, the clear cut advantages of your company products over the competitors products and number of disadvantages of your competitor products as compare to your products even than they are not convinced, satisfied and influenced by your explanations about your products and competitors products and you do not achieve and accomplish goals and targets set by you, Do not Cry, Accept it, Fight it and Win it. Sometimes it can happen in professional area and assignments, that despite you provide best of the products, despite you give best of the clients benefits schemes, despite you provide best of the after sales services of your company products but you do not achieve and accomplish goals and targets set by you, Do not Cry, Accept it, Fight it and Win it. Sometimes it can happen in professional area and assignments, that despite your best of professional deliberations with your client you are not successful in pursuing your client to use and purchase your product and you do not achieve and accomplish goals and targets set by you, Do not Cry, Accept it, Fight it and Win it. So my dear friends Do Not Cry, Accept it, Fight it and Win it.
My dear friends remember it is the running and flowing water of the river which gains momentum, movement and speed. It is the running and flowing water of the river which find out its ways and route even in dense forests, high up mountains and rough terrains. It is the running & flowing water of the river which always remain fresh and invigorating. It is the running and flowing water of the river which is when diverted in fertile and ploughing fields with twenty first century modern techniques results and gives rise to various crops, vegetables, fruits,fodder and various other products. It is the running and flowing water which forms the lifeline of the human population through out the world. It is the running , flowing and gushing water of the river at a very high speed when diverted with the help of man made big dams produces large amount of electricity for the domestic and industrial use. It is the running and flowing water of the river which helps in maintaining fauna and flora to maintain the balance of mother nature.
But my dear friends have you ever seen stagnant and movementless and motionless water anywhere providing such great and large number of benefits. Rather stagnant water starts stinking, gets dirty, becomes a place of breeding for disease spreading organisms and ultimately of no use and gets discarded.
So always be in movement, full of energy, brimming with high voltage, imparting high level of enthusiasm to whosoever interacts with you. May it be at your personal level or at your professional level in business, in job, in your projects or whichever professional field you are in. So always remember Your Movement is Your Winning Stroke.
There is a very popular quote :
THE ONLY WAY TO KEEP MOVEMENT IS TO KEEP HIGHER GOALS.
My dear friends you must and ought to Know Your Priorities both personally & professionally very clearly, in a well defined and a definitive way to be a successful and a winner. Because it is how you set your personal and professional priorities, accordingly you march forward and nearer to your ambitions and goals both personal & professional.
You must analyse, identify and classify your priorities, both personal and professional to be a successful and a winner, so Know Your Priorities very well. You must segregate and categorize the priorities, both personal and professional to be a successful and a winner, so Know Your Priorities very well. You must codify and label the priorities , both personal and professional to be a successful and a winner, so Know Your Priorities very well. You must assort and brand the priorities, both personal and professional to be a successful and a winner, so Know Your Priorities very well. You must group and grade the priorities, both personal and professional to be a successful and a winner, so Know Your Priorities very well. You must index, name and number the priorities, both personal and professional to be a successful and a winner, so Know Your Priorities very well. So my dear friends you must judge and evaluate your priorities and achieve your goals and fulfil your ambition.
There is a very popular quote :
TO SUCCEED TODAY YOU HAVE TO KNOW YOUR PRIORITIES.
My dear Friends first always recognise and identify the trouble, difficulty, danger or problem may it be personal or professional, may it be in your business, may it be in your job, may it be in your projects or whichever professional field you are in. And than find out a solution to the problem. And than find out the ways and means to resolve and solve the problem. And finally Finish The Problem.
Always try to first acknowledge & observe keenly the problem to Finish The Problem. Always try to note and know the problem and than Finish The Problem. Always try to pinpoint & nail the problem and than Finish The Problem. Always try to diagnose & distinguish the problem and than Finish the problem. Always first note and admit the problem and than Finish The Problem. Always pinpoint and peg the problem and than Finish The Problem. Always sight and spot the problem than Finish The Problem. Always see, remember and button down the problem and than Finish The Problem. Always descry, accept and tolerate the problem and than Finish The Problem. Always expose and unmask the problem and than Finish The Problem. So my dear friends Finish The Problem may it be personal or professional so that you can achieve your goal.
There is a very popular quote :
FINISH THE PROBLEMS TILL YOU ARE ALIVE.
My dear friends this life is absolutely and totally your life, you are totally responsible for each & everything which is achieved or lost or happened in your life, because it is You Only Change Your Life.
You gained as a result of your efforts put in because it is You Only Change Your Life. You gained as a result of your hardwork you put in because it is You Only Change Your Life. You gained as a result of your struggle because it is You Only Change Your Life. You gained as a result of tough grind and uphill battle at your personal & professional level because it is You Only Change Your Life. You gained as a result of back breaking work you put in because it is You Only Change Your Life .You gained as a result of stress & strain you have undergone to achieve number one position in your business, in your job, in your projects or whichever professional field you are in because it is You Only Change Your Life. You gained as a result of your toiling day night and doing tedious work to achieve your goals because it is You Only Change Your Life. You gained as a result of your blood and sweat that flowed in and out of your body to achieve your ambition because it is You Only Change Your Life. You gained as a result of accepting & accomplishing tough assignments and difficult tasks both at personal level & professional level because it is You Only Change Your Life. So my dear friends You Only Change Your Life.
There is a very popular quote by Benjamin Franklin:
WHEN YOU ARE FINISHED CHANGING,YOU ARE FINISHED.
My dear friends both in personal and professional life to be successful, let there Be No Limits. For hitting a winning stroke and to be a winner, let there be no limits.
To be master, wizard and champ in the business, in the job, in the various projects you are carrying out in professional and in personal life, in whichever professional field you are in, let there Be No Limits. To be outstanding and to be at the top of the ladder in the business, in the job, in the various projects you are carrying out in professional and in personal life, in whichever professional field you are in, let there Be No Limits. To be a challenger & to be a champion in the business, in the job, in the various projects you are carrying out in professional and in personal life, in whichever professional field you are in, let there Be No Limits. To be conqueror & record breaker in the business, in the job, in the various projects you are carrying out in professional and in personal life, in whichever professional field you are in, let there Be No Limits. To be a prize winner, medal winner & a top dog in the business, in the job, in the various projects you are carrying out in professional and in personal life, in whichever professional field you are in, let there Be No Limits. To be a second to none, outstanding & vanquisher in the business, in the job, in the various projects you are carrying out in professional and in personal life, in whichever professional field you are in, let there Be No Limits. So let there Be No Limits.
There is a very popular quote :
LET THERE BE NO LIMITS ON ANYTHING. THE MORE YOU DREAM, FARTHER YOU GET.
My dear friends if you want to be noticed in this world of concrete jungle than you have to Be Different. If you want to be seen yourself as a hero in this world of concrete jungle than you have to Be Different.
If you want to be a charismatic personality, an eminent figure to be viewed from a distance in this world of concrete jungle than you have to Be Different. If you want be a hypnotic self in this world of concrete jungle than you have to Be Different. If you want to be a magnetic and mesmerizing individual in this world of concrete jungle than you have to Be Different. If you want to be larger than life and a thought provoking figure in this world of concrete jungle than you have to Be Different. If you want to be righteous & virtuous in this world of concrete jungle than you have to Be Different. If you want to be seductive, charming,attractive & captivative in this world of concrete jungle than you have to Be Different. If you want to be powerful, forceful and aggressive in this world of concrete jungle than you havetoBe Different. If you want to be fascinating, exciting, dazzling & bewitching in this world of concrete jungle than you have to Be Different. If you want to be activating, highpowered & electric in this world of concrete jungle than you have to be different. So my dear friends always Be Different.
There is a very popular quote by Coco Chanel:
IN ORDER TO BE IRREPLACEBLE ONE MUST ALWAYS BE DIFFERENT.
My dear friends this life is full of lots of ups & downs, full of joys & sorrows, full of achievements & failures, full of motivations inspirations & sometimes discouragements also , full of winning strokes & sometime defeat also. In your life there is very old saying that relatives are by nature you can not change them but friends are always by choice. But even than you come across number of people throughout your life your relatives, your friends both personal & professional,your family members,your business associates ,they all come use your potential & acumen to resolve their issues and their difficulties & than they just leave you move forward in this race & go & Never Wait & stay back to resolve your issues & problems if any you come across. In this world if you wait for somebody you will not reach anywhere,make your worth by your sheer hard work, by your magnificent achievements & accomplishments, by your thumping & roaring success in whichever professional field you are in may be you are doing business or job, your go getter attitude to get the work done from anywhere & everywhere.So Never Wait just get the tasks complete before time yourself only.
There is a very popular quote:
LIFE TAUGHT ME TO BE INDEPENDENT.NEVER WAIT FOR ANYBODY FOR ANYTHING IN LIFE.
My dear friends for you and for everybody something or the other motivates you. For some any incidence which happened in their lifetime motivates them. For some regularly exercising in the morning motivates them. For some regularly visiting any place religious or otherwise motivates them. For some reading & listening inspiring quotes & stories motivates them. For some listening to the music of their choice motivates them. For some it is romance ,coziness & closeness with their partner, spouse or friend motivates them. For some certain food & drink at a particular place motivates them. For some travelling long distances with family members motivates them. For some travelling with friends motivates them. For some travelling with business associates motivates them. For some daily going to the clubs for recreation motivates them. For some sipping a hot cup of coffee along with their friends motivates them. For some going for a movie motivates them. For some it is the success & achievement & to be winner & number one in their job or their business or in their projects or whichever professional field they are in, motivates them.
Do whatever you want to do like a free bird and Whatever Motivates You. But remember it should be ethical, it should not disturb or pester others, it should be legal as per the law of the country, it should not harm or hurt anybody and it should be decent & righteous.
There is a very popular quote by Vin Diesel:
LOVE MOTIVATES ME IN EVERYTHING I DO.
My dear friends always move forward, never look back, never stops ,never recollect your mistakes, never regret what you have done & implemented in the past, never repent on your failure if any in the past and just forget . Rather Always Strive For the Mark Set Before You By You.
Always Strive For the Mark Set Before You By You because it is your concentrated efforts which are set to reach towards the completion of your goal. Always Strive For the Mark Set Before You By You as it is your concentrated efforts which are set to reach & meet the customer as per the prior appointment fixed by you . Always Strive For the Mark Set Before You By You because it is your concentrated efforts which are set to reach to your customer to meet customer demands, ethical & genuine only raised from time to time. Always Strive For the Mark Set Before You By You as it is your concentrated efforts which are set to reach to your customer to arrange live demonstration of your products to convince & pursue the customers to opt for your products only. Always Strive For the Mark Set Before You By You because it is your concentrated efforts which are set to reach & meet the customers to arrange business meets for the customers in the form of professional luncheon or dinner meets . It is Always Strive For the Mark Set Before You By You as it is your concentrated efforts which are set to reach & meet the customers to raise a demand before the customer to use & purchase your product only. So Always Strive For the Mark Set Before You By You.
There is a very popular quote:
PRESS FORWARD.DO NOT STOP, DO NOT LINGER .BUT ALWAYS STRIVE FOR THE MARK SET BEFORE YOU.
My dear friends what ever you want to achieve be it be in your personal life or professional life Never Aim Too High Or Too Low.
Always plan, aim objectives which are achievable neither too low nor too high. Because if your aim & objectives are too high,far more than your capacity, capability & your potential than it becomes unachievable. And not achieving & accomplishing your aims & objectives causes demotivation & dejection which in turn forces you to run away & avoid your aims & objectives instead of achieving it. And you are lagged behind in the race of achievement which is so competitive & fierce.
On the other side if you keep your aims & objectives much lower than your capacity, capability & potential than it will be so easily accomplished & achieved and you will not face, come across and experience any difficulties and hurdles which forces you to learn, find out ways and means, to, how to resolve and how to come out of various hurdles, obstacles & problems that arises in tough & challenging situations demanding your total involvement, dedication and devotion and above all taking wise & mature decisions to resolve the total problems .
There is a very popular quote :
The greater danger for most of us lies not in setting our aim too high and falling short; but in setting our aim too low, and achieving our mark.
My dear friends To Begin, Begin & do not wait for anybody because wait makes you late. It is the dependency which makes you lazy, lethargic , sluggish & delay your beginning of any type of work be it be personal or professional.
To Begin, Begin the moment you decide and plan your work. Because unless you begin your work you will not be heading towards its accomplishment & completion. To Begin, Begin the moment you gets up in the morning because it is the first step towards the beginning of your personal or professional work in the morning itself which makes your blood rushing to start your work. Professionally may it be list of customers you are going to meet; May it be fulfilling the pending demands or the new demands raised by your customers ;May it be arranging business meets of your customers; May it be a live demonstration of your products; May it be satisfying your customer by rationally answering & clarifying the doubts if any of your customer . And personally it can be number of personal work pending but you have To Begin and Begin any personal work at any cost to take it to the final completion. So my dear friends for culmination & finalization of any work you have To Begin and Begin only.
There is a very popular quote by Henry Ford:
FAILURE IS SIMPLY THE OPPORTUNITY TO BEGIN AND BEGIN AGAIN.
My dear friends Keep Going is a highly positive attitude. Keep Going is a fighting , aggressive & unbeatable mental state to be a successful, a winner & number one in your life.
Keep Going is a fire inside you to be a champion. Keep Going is a never ending epitome of energy generated in your goodself to work endlessly day in & day out. Keep Going is a knack to achieve and accomplish what you have planned. Keep Going is your planning, your strategy to be star & record breaker. Keep Going is inner strength , vigour & vitality to try umpteen number of times until you acquire & attain what you have been longing for. Keep Going is a trait where you do not accept a failure despite getting failed number of times unless you become a conqueror & victor in your aim & ambition. Keep Going is an untiring efforts to fulfill your goals & objectives fixed by your own self. Keep Going is a continuous attempt & motive to reach towards & work out for achieving target you have set in for yourself. Keep Going is a dedication & devotion towards your profession, your family , your friends, your colleagues & your team members because of the unflinching & shoulder to shoulder support, all of them are extending to you. So my dear friends keep going till you reach at the top & peak of your profession.
There is a very popular quote:
DO NOT LOSE YOUR HEART,JUST KEEP GOING.
My dear friends there is a very old saying that the practice makes a man perfect and a idle mind is a devil's workshop.
Practice makes a man perfect , clearly means that More We Do more we learn both personally & professionally. More We Do more we achieve both personally & professionally . More We Do more we gain out of our efforts both personally & professionally. More We Do more confidence we gain both personally & professionally. More We Do more techniques & styles we innovate both personally & professionally. More We Do more patience we develop both personally & professionally. More We Do more boldness & courage we develop by shedding our inhibitions both personally & professionally. More We Do more practical we become in our approach both personally & professionally. More We Do more positive approach we develop in our day to day dealings both personally & professionally. More We Do more we learn how to rectify & lessen your mistakes both personally & professionally. More We Do more we come to know about our strengths & weaknesses both personally & professionally. More We Do more cautiously we tread our path both in personal & professional world. More We Do more we develop risk taking attitude both personally & professionally. More We Do more stamina we develop to work both personally & professionally. More We Do the more ways & means we develop to resolve various problems & difficulties we face both personally & professionally. So always have a attitude to do more.
There is a very popular quote by William Hazlitt:
THE MORE WE DO, THE MORE WE CAN DO.
My dear friends always remember you are a King or Queen of your house & of your family members, you are a King or Queen of your relatives you are King or Queen of your friends, you are a King or Queen of your business, you are a King or Queen in your job, you are King or Queen of your projects, you are a King or Queen of your clients & customers, you are a King or Queen of team you are working with & colleagues you are dealing with.Than why not Live Life Like A King or Queen. And like a King or Queen never underestimate your capacity, capability ,power & potential as a go getter.
Like a King or Queen you should be extremely hard working, totally managing your company if you are in business , your colleagues if you are in job , your product line & also managing even your home, children & parents. Like a King or Queen you should be well dressed. Like a King or Queen you should be a good listener & try to resolve any queries raised professionally & personally. Like a King or Queen your deliberations professionally & personally should be lucid, crystal clear & covering the total subject which you are talking & conveying professionally or personally. Like a King or Queen you should be always be in capacity of fulfilling the demands raised professionally & personally. So always Live Life Like A King or Queen.
There is a very popular quote:
I AM INDEED A KING BECAUSE I KNOW HOW TO RULE MYSELF.
BY PIETRO ARETINO
The phrase Survival of the Fittest my dear friends was coined in the year 1859 by Mr Herbert Spencer who was a British Philosopher & than used by Mr Charles Darwin in 1869 in his theory. Even after hundred and fifty four years this phrase is totally applicable even today.
My dear friends if you are not the fittest you can not survive, may it be in your home, amongst your friends, amongst your relatives, in your job, in your projects, in your business or whichever professional field you are in. In today's context Survival of the Fittest plays very important role as now the living conditions, day to day circumstances may it be personal or professional, styles of working, fetching & procuring business are getting more tougher, much more complex, much more competitive & very demanding. For getting rise in the job, for getting business from your customer or client, for getting through your projects from various departments may it be in private industry or govt. undertakings. Everywhere the formula of Survival of the Fittest apply. But sometimes some wrong, unethical & ungenuine ways & means becomes the wheels for the Survival Of the Fittest but these wheels are very weak & get bursted very fast.
My dear friends for Survival of the Fittest you have to be very hardworking, slogging day in & day out, witty, down to earth, full of rationality, full of vigour & vitality, epitome of energy, without any inhibitions, full of initiative ,full of patience and a big river of calmness & coolness.
There is a very popular quote:
IN THE WORLD OF UNRESTRICTED COMPETITION AND SUCCESS OF UNSCRUPULOUS,IT IS ONLY THE WITTIEST ,WITTIEST AND THE WITTIEST ARE THE SURVIVAL OF THE FITTEST.
My dear friends you must have come across Happy Go Lucky people in your day to day business, professional & personal dealings who just laugh away what ever you say to them. Who are these Happy Go Lucky persons.
Happy Go Lucky just laugh away whatever taunting, teasing or provoking comments anybody passes for them. Happy Go Lucky just laugh away & pocket even if anybody speaks for them any insulting, hurting, adverse remarks. Happy Go Lucky just laugh away never feel offended even if their prior meeting appointment is cancelled or postponed. Happy Go Lucky just laugh away even if they have been told to wait for a quite long time to meet anybody despite prior appointment. Happy Go Lucky just laugh away any impulsive reaction, anger or anguish shown by anybody to them. Happy Go Lucky just laugh away any type of criticism from anybody and rather take it as a healthy criticism & try to improve. Happy Go Lucky person is full of initiative & never waits for an opportunity to come rather creates an opportunity to be a winner & always number one. Happy Go Lucky person is untiring, unstoppable, inexhaustible which never stops unless the task is completed & goal is achieved. Happy Go Lucky is a person who just laugh away the achievement, do not get bloated and immediately start preparing for the next mission. So always be Happy Go Lucky.
There is a very popular quote :
A HAPPY-GO-LUCKY NEVER FEEL MISERABLE & DEPRESSED.
My dear friends Do not Depend on any body. Because it is you & you only who is going to remember everything & anything about what you have planned, what you need, what you want & what you are going to inform, demonstrate & exhibit so that you achieve & accomplish what you have ultimately finalised.
Do not Depend as it mows down the vigour, vitality ,zeal & zest to fulfil your target & goal. Do not Depend as it slows down your process of achievement. Do not Depend as it inhibits your independent decision making process. Do not Depend as sometimes others ideas forces , confuses & stops you to take the right & rational decisions. Do not Depend as it sucks your energy, your ideas, your endeavour to reach towards your objective. Do not Depend as it nullifies your independent thinking & decision making process. Do not Depend as it dilutes your concentrated efforts towards completion of your projects. Do not depend as it leads to lethargic attitude towards your day & night slogging for fulfilling your dreams. Do not depend as it will not only inculcate in you the dependence on others rather weaken your trait of acting independently. So always be independent in taking decisions, in implementing your strategies, in carrying out successfully your programmes & policies so that you are always a winner & achiever.
There is a very popular quote:
WORK OUT YOUR OWN SUCCESS,DO NOT DEPEND ON OTHERS.
My dear friends there is a very simple formula that if you are living on third floor & you want a free flow of water on your third floor you have to install a water booster pump, total pipe line up to third floor along with a water storage tank & above all a plumber to install all this. But if you want to throw water from third floor to the ground that you have to just hit the bucket forcefully with your leg & water goes to the ground.
This clearly denotes that if you have to do something positive, concrete, perfect & conclusive, than you have to put in lot of efforts, lot of hard work & total Change of Attitude. Change of Attitude is must if you want to achieve success, want to be a winner & want always to be on number one position in the business, in the job, in your projects or whichever professional field you are in.
Change of Attitude with regards to daily working hours as some do work for eight hours that to strictly as per the watch & some never look towards the watch but keep on doing the work till they achieve their goal. Change of Attitude with regards to your profession in which you are in, one should always be honest & sincere to the profession , always be proud of your profession you are in & always maintain the dignity of the your profession because it is the company or business or projects which closes down & never any profession. Change of Attitude with regards to your knowledge & training, your interest & orientation, your expertise about the profession you are in. It is your Change of Attitude towards achieving perfection that can only make you a great winner.
There is a very popular quote:
CHANGE OF ATTITUDE IS A LITTLE THING THAT MAKES A BIG DIFFERENCE.
My dear friends people in the present, in the past and also in the future who have risen the ladder to be number one in their jobs, in their business, in their projects or whichever professional field they are Workaholics, were workaholics and will be workaholics. Workaholics who have reached to the top like Indira Nooyi Chairman & CEO PepsiCo,Jack Dorsey founder & CEO of Twitter, Julie Smolynsky CEO Lifeway Foods & many more had only just 4 hours of sleep daily because of their sheer devotion, dedication and determination .But my dear friends please do not infer that sleeping less will make us reach to the top.
Workaholic gets up in the morning with a work in mind ; even while doing daily chores in the morning Workaholic is thinking of which customer to be met today, which site to be visited, when to have meeting in the office, what work to be done today in the office because in Workaholic dictionary they do not have, they do not like pending work; On breakfast table Workaholic already started the conversation with the customer with regards to appointment, even the products also; Workaholic while on way to office already started connecting boss in case of job or started talking to team members in the case of business; Workaholic reaches office, site or field without idling for a second and starts days work; Workaholics have fixed leaving time in the morning, but in the evening office, site or field leaving time is never fixed because they only leave for their home only when days work is hundred percent over. Workaholic never waits for an opportunity rather creates and grab the opportunity. Workaholic gets immense happiness & satisfaction out of their work.
There is a very popular quote by Criss Angel:
I AM A WORKAHOLIC. I WORK AND WORK AND WORK.
My dear friends if you want to experience what physical space means to people than travel in jam packed metro trains,fully packed buses, totally cramped up sea of human beings in any meeting either political or non political, stranded in traffic jam on totally choked road for hours together & not moving an inch.
Always in your life you have to Give space to others,physical & mental both because there should not be any physical jam or mental jam in the minds, when you see eye to eye to each other. And when you need a space physical or mental you also immediately Get it because space is always a reciprocation & not a binding on any body. Giving or Getting Space can be from your family members & relatives, Giving & Getting Space can be from your friends both personal & professional, Giving & Getting Space can be from your team mates in your business, Giving & Getting Space can be from your colleagues in the job.
Now my dear friends question arises What is a space? Do you remember the punishment by the nursery school teacher & after admonishment toffee or lollipop or chocolate was given, this is a space. Do you remember scolding by your parents, by your elder brother or by your elder sister in the four walls of your home but after that meals were served to you by your mother, this is a space. Do you remember your boss, who will criticise you through & through, but as soon as you procure business you are appreciated, this is a space. Do you remember reaching late to meet your friend, how angrily your friend reacted but followed by a warm hug, this is a space & many more other instances. Space is nothing but love, affection ,reward, respect & mutual trust.
There is a very popular quote:
WE MUST GIVE SPACE TO EACH OTHER TO GET IDEAS,OPENNESS,JOY,HEALING AND SUCCESS.
In your day to day work you come across number of people be it be your friends professional & personal both, be it be your relatives, be it be your professional team members, be it be number of clients, be it be number of customers, be it be number of buyers, be it be number of purchasers, using very harsh, intolerable, crude, bitter language. You do not unnecessarily argue, squabble, fight,confront with anybody & everybody rather you just Forget & Forgive. Sometime when you get up in the morning & you have already have a fixed appointment, What you notice, your clothes which you have ironed previous night are totally crumbled up & your polished shoes are totally spoiled by your small kids, than you do not scold them, chide them, admonish them rather Forget & Forgive. Sometimes your parents despite you are already getting late for your office requests you to wait for few minutes & take the prescription of a doctor for purchasing their medicines, you do not get irritated rather Forgive & Forget. Sometimes when you are leaving for your work & your boss is waiting for you in the office, your spouse tells you to wait for few minutes as she is also accompanying & you drop her/him on your way to office, you do not react rather Forget & Forgive. Sometimes your very old & pet customer tells you that this time she/he will not buy your product, you do not rebuke rather Forget & Forgive & politely pursue your customer.
My dear friends always remember that you have to Forget & Forgive quickly, promptly, immediately, instantly both in personal & professional life. It can be a harsh, intolerable, insulting words just Forget & Forgive; it can be avoiding you just Forget & Forgive; it can be disrespecting you just Forget & Forgive; it can be direct refusal to you to buy your products just Forget & Forgive. Because Forget & Forgive keeps you calm, cool, tranquil, serene, undisturbed & mollified.
There is a very popular quote by F. Scott Fitzgerald :
FORGOTTEN IS FORGIVEN.
Self Improvement is a continuous, never ending, unceasing, endless,regular & everlasting process in your lifetime irrespective of whatsoever you are doing ; be it be in your job, be it be in your business, be it be in your projects or whichever professional field you are in; whosoever you are dealing with may be your customers, may be your professional & personal friends, may be your relatives, may be your well wishers, may be your critics; whichsoever it is for ,can be for your own self, can be for your products, can be for your own company, can be for your team members, can be for your office.
Self Improvement is a advancement, is a progress in your career especially in your job by getting higher post with higher responsibility and in your own business by increase in the turn over of your company by increasing the base of your customers in business. Self Improvement is a cultivation of calmness & coolness in your temperament despite being in very inciting situation. Self Improvement is giving a patient hearing to your customers,to your professional & personal friends, to your relatives, to your well wishers, may be your critics even if they are harsh & hurting in their deliberation. Self improvement is never accepting or pocketing a defeat rather learning from it & converting it to a total winning stroke whenever & wherever it is possible. Self improvement is a continuous perusal of your client, customer, purchaser, buyer by meeting again & again and developing both professional & personal relation. Self Improvement is modifying, adjusting, correcting the various negative qualities like running away from hard work, not taking initiative, avoiding the achievable and many more.
So always firmly believe in self improvement & always crave for it.
There is a very popular quote:
SELF IMPROVEMENT IS A HEADWAY AND ROAD TO SUCCESS.
Zero adamancy means total open mindedness in relation to your customers, in relation to your products , in relation to your company and even in relation to your day to day dealings with your friends professional & personal both, with your relatives & people around you , and also be it be in your job, be it be in your projects, be it be in your business or whichever professional field you are in.
Zero adamancy means total amiability, accommodativeness & compliance in day to day business & professional dealings with your customers or otherwise. Zero adamancy means passivity, yielding & submissiveness by just being a good listener, good admirer, good demonstrator. Zero adamancy means cooperativeness, aggreeableness with the customers or otherwise by not reacting in a hurting manner rather putting forward your point of view very patiently & in a very tactical manner & winning over. Zero adamancy means consent, conformity & concurrence with your customers or otherwise ,even if you and your products are being criticised, rather demonstrating the advantages of your product line by your unmatched,unparalleled skills. Zero adamancy means utmost care, professional & personal closeness which ultimately develops into mutual faith , trust , loyalty & respect for each other both personally & professionally.
There is a very popular quote :
ZERO ADAMANACY IS ZERO FAILURE.
